The Secret Signals Your Body Language Sends to Men

"Classically, people see this is a barrier gesture that repels people," James says. There are two different versions, each with its own meaning. "If your arms are folded in a self-hug, so that your hands touch your rib cage, it can imply that you're feeling insecure or bored," she says. "If your arms are folded, so that your hands are on your biceps, you're telling him that you're not interested in talking."