‘He tried to force himself on me’ – Lady whose husband showed up at work demanding sex cries out
A Nigerian married woman has narrated the strange sexual experience she had with her husband.
The lady whose identity was not given sought public counsel after her husband visited her at work demanding for sex.
She revealed that he showed up at her office unannounced and asked her to inform her secretary not to allow anyone in for 30 minutes.
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She said she believed he was going to discuss a pressing issue, only for him to demand sex.
Things took a different turn when she refused him because she considered it inappropriate as it was her work hour.
According to the lady, her refusal provoked him and then he tried forcing himself on her.
“I told him it was my working hour and that I couldn’t. He got pissed and tried forcing himself on me,” she said.
Scared for her safety she screams for help. She explained that her husband was caught pants down when co-workers arrived to help.
Following the embarrassment, he pulled the wedding ring and dumped it on the ground.
In her narration, she also said, “I give him sex at home when he wants it, we don’t have any real sex issues pending.”
Several social media users have reacted with mixed emotions. While some advised her to apologise, others criticised the man for his action.
@pellaiyke advised
“Apologize to him and know there is no time and location for sex. He is your husband”
@mimsbobo said:
“5 mins of your time would have done a great deal, no matter how busy you are at work. Man was just trying to spice up his relationship.”
@iamdupe2upe stated:
“This is deep o. The man was wrong but she shouldn’t have called someone on help him to the point of seeing your husband nakedness . Only God knows the temptation the man ran away from to get to you. Some men also lack self control”
@funmilayo_wealth reacted:
“Now that they have seen her husband’s nakedness, hope she’s happy. Dear women… we receive sense this year in Jesus name”
@legalipcoach wrote:
“Word force… that’s the only issue that I have with this. If his in the habit of forcing her at home, then I can see how she wasn’t comfortable envisioning having that experience at her work place and having to replay it. Aside that, both need to be counseled properly on how to go about experiencing incredible intimacy outside the 4 walks of their bedroom. Could have been an incredible memory but let’s not take away her fears and his lack of padding the situation well. Force is a no no, no one gets turned on by it.”
@pastormimie asked:
“There is obviously more she is not saying. Why did he try to force her? Have there been occurrences of rape in their marriage in the past? When was the last time they had sex? I know she said they didn’t have sex issues, but when was the last time? Does he have a track record of lack of self-control? How friendly are they to each other in their marriage? Has he ever brought up the idea of sex in the office before? What was her response? Have they had sex in different locations aside the bedroom before?”
@i_am_tartan said:
“This wife needs to be check… your own husband came to you for what you know he’s his and he haven’t done dat before… you were calling for help.. that people have to come meet him naked.. be praying for him to come back first.. don’t bother about what you will say.. he has dropped your ring already… we all need wisdom. Even if we’ll all think the man was wrong.. atleast this woman need wisdom on this.”
@hernusida commented:
“I weep for all the comments here, especially from females, haba what sort of temptation is the husband running from, that he can’t wait till the wife returns back from work, so because she is married, she must do what is against the ethics of her job because she wants to satisfy her hungry husband abi, if the husband doesn’t have ulterior motives, he would have listen n understand his wife before the raising of alarm, once his head is cool he would come back home, who knows maybe the husband has been looking for an avenue to bring in the second wife, so he will now capitalize on this”
@olori_hageebade said:
“Coming in during working hours was wrong. But she should have looked for a way to calm him down without in a good way. And talk things out. He must have encountered a heavy temptation. He running to you in time of need is a bonus on your part. Keep sending messages, apologies, and talk to God. His grace is sufficient.”
#stevextein wrote:
“Wisdom is lacking in both, but mostly on the woman. She would have been able to convince him to go somewhere else. This is your husband we’re talking about here!”
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Man sleeps on the floor while waiting for wife to deliver
TikTok users are praising a man for the way he stood by his wife as she prepared to enter the labour room.
In a video posted by Badmus Cutie, the man was there for his wife at every moment until she put to birth.
As the labour pain intensified, he was seen holding his wife in absolute support, and he never departed from her side in the video.
In fact, at some point, he could be seen lying on the floor inside the hospital, waiting for his wife to put to bed.
It all ended in joy, as the video revealed when the happy husband held his baby in joy after his wife delivered successfully.
